China Dating Scams


Watch out for alot of websites springing up offering to date with Chinese ladies

I have been chatting with a Chinese lady through the chnlove website (www.chnlove.com) and I hope to meet her on the 15th of July in Changsha. Though I have read some feedback on other websites saying that the lady I meet could be someone different from the photo. I have heard it could be a scam.
What are your views on this and are these stories true?

It depends. The best way is to meet them up in person, which means you have to fly over. Everything else on email are potentially bullshit.

I am considering going to China to meet someone I have been cooresponding with on the internet. Naturally I'm quite hesitant. Any words of advice would be greatly appreciated.

We think that it is ok. However, if the person is real (after meeting up), then they are looking more than simple romance. In fact, they are not interested in you, but your...


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Comments (5)

Jake
Said this on 4-4-2012 At 11:45 am

It's almost impossible to weed out all the potential problems. I got to know a filipina online, cam to cam over many months. I could contact her at almost anytime day or night by cellphone. She sent me gifts. Things heated up. I flew to visit her and she seemed lovely. A week of bliss. I met her cousins and siblings. I began to send her enough for foods and rent. We made plans to see each other again and spoke of our future. In the end, following instinct, I texted her by another number with a fake name. "Remember me? It's bob? I miss you". "Yes of course, Bob, you know I love you. Let's meet soon". Turns out she had many bfs, one kid, and one cooperative husband. I confronted her, she admitted it all. Lesson learned. Her last words to me were, "could you still send me for next month's rent"? If I were to do it again, I'd use a professional and check your lady out before she checks out.

shawn
Said this on 1-3-2012 At 10:14 pm

for the one coming to Changsha what is a good way to contact you i am in changsha for 2 months and there is one in changsha that claims to be a match maker and she is a con the girls are for real and most dont know what is happening she uses the same site and a couple more she just had someone come from USA to meet a woman i know that knew very little about what was going on in fact she chatted very little with this person it was the match maker, there are alot of good women here dont let the cons scare you off

if they will not get on webcam and they ask for money dont waste your time walk away

Richard
Said this on 3-30-2012 At 12:18 am

Shawn that's true. I'm a chnlove member. Quit paying them a couple months ago. I think they aren't so much a scam as they are money-grubbing and take advantage of the guys - pretty dishonest practices. But there are some really good ladies there. The key is to find one that'll communicate AWAY from their website - and make sure you have enough money to arrange a meeting with somebody early-on... if they refuse webcam & direct contact, just stop. also, the older ladies are the real ones for the most part ... at least mid-30's. Younger girls ... just want what you can give them.

 

Stanley
Said this on 12-15-2011 At 12:41 am

I met chinese woman on the chineseskissess.com I would never imagine she would be a scammer her promisses to me and her passport copy with the Chinese ID single status and oh so many pictures professionally taken were so true looking I believed she was true with me. So I got invloved and sent her money for her coming to me as she promissed to me that she will come to me to Canada for sure. It never come to this she always caused some probllems and asked for more money. Ok, I would continue with her if she let me to see her on the webcam or let e to come to see meet her in China Jilin City , she did not like the idea so I quit her and I asked my money back, I know I will never get it though she promised to me it is for us and our future marriage. I wish now to report her and give all the informations and documents to Chinese authorities. What would be the best way to report this to make the best impact to prevent her from doing this to anyone else in the future?

Said this on 1-15-2012 At 07:06 am

You should post her at Dragonladies.org

You were most likely in contact with a West African scammer, who is a resident of China.

If you check the IP from any email she sent, you will probably see the email came from a province different than where she claimed to be, and most likely from the Guangdong province, a hotspot of West African scammers.

You were smart to break it off at the money request, as well as when the lady refuses to show a face on cam.

 

 

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