Yet Another Lover Scam


Thanks to Debbie, attached below is the full article:

Just wanted to alert you to, what I believe, may be a different turn on a traditional scam.  Yes, through an online dating site, he started a chat with me, which proceeded to yahoo chatting.  We have/had been chatting for over 7 months ( which I was dupped to begin with).  I always figured the scammers were in a rush to make their kill and then move on to the next.  Oh, by the way, I have worked in the electronic financial industry for many years, so I do keep on top of money fraud & checks, etc...  So, prior to the holidays, he first says he wants to take me on vacation-meet him in Hawaii.  Of course, I have responsibilities here (several pets and a house to maintain, and, I am unemployed-therefore, no income), so I told him i was unable to go, in addition to being unemployed and having to save my pennies for my mortgage payments.

Next thing I hear is that he will be coming to visit me, because he is due 2 weeks vacation from his job as a satellite engineer/programmer. (Another engineer).  So, he tells me he will be sending me a check, in pounds (he was in England), and to see if my bank would cash it.  Up goes the alarm.  I played along, told him I would check with the bank, which I did.  They told me they would have to send it out somewhere, I guess for conversion.  So, he sends me the check for 4800 pounds.  I walk it into my bank, and ask the manager if she knows anything about internet check fraud or scams, because I thought that I may have one.  She gladly says she would send it to their fraud detection department, along with my concern of fraud.

Well, don't you know, they tell me it is, in fact a scam.

Meantime, I had told this guy that I would not be depositing it into my account.  That I was having the bank check for fraud and funds, and if they said it was okay, then I would open an account for him, for his arrival.  Knowing all that information, he still pursued.  He would be here on the 25th; when then check got clearance, use that money to reserve him a hotel; make reservations for wherever I wanted to go, yada yada yada...

While the bank is checking all this out (they told me 7-10 business days), we're chatting every night, and then he tells me he was in an accident.  He was fine, but the person he hit was hospitalized.  He was driving a friends car, no insurance.  The victim is willing to settle for hospital and injuries' fees.  So, when the bank cleared the check, could I please wire $xxx to, and he gives me a name and address in London, to send it to.  He even had the gumption to find a place near where I live that I could send the transfer from.

When I finally hear from the bank, yes it was fraud, and no, they wouldn't return the check.  So, I relayed the message to him.  I played stupid and suggested that he stop payment on the check immediately, just in case.
Needless to say, I haven't heard from him since that last chat, about 4 days ago.  However, my bank has the name and address he gave me, so, hopefully, something can get done by them or the Feds.

That's my story and I'm sticking to it!

ps-He even sent me a picture of "himself"





Comments (26)

Said this on 8-14-2011 At 02:38 pm

Attempted scam - said he was a civil engineer in the army in Lybia, no photo on profile but emailed me photos, good looking 50ish gray hair - Nathaniel Walker. emails full of text taken from letters on scam warning sites (I did a plagiarism check). said he was a chief commander in Army retiring soon (no such rank) when I asked what regiment couldn't answer for ages. Single parent son 16 mum dead, said he had a house , 4 beds pool and garden in wiltshire. Some emails english good as they were copied but on msn broken english bad spelliing, no understanding of some of the questions I asked. I challenged him and he disappeared but is still on the dating site. Will be reporting him tomorrow

Said this on 5-12-2011 At 08:02 pm

Hi

I just would like to say I believe I have a scammer talkin to me right now, this one is very good, plenty of Pics, in the US army he say  he wants to set us up in our own home, loves me unconditionally, I think about 2 steps away from cybersex.

Then he has just dropped a bomshell this morning, he wants me to receive a very large sum of money to hold till he gets here, hasn't given details of how and when yet but of course I have refused today and I believe it will end here and now

I told him I have a history with scammers (none have succeeded)  I cant believe there are so many out there, most with nice photos, usually engineers, military or bussiness owners, usually overseas, and usually with 1 child. No family left, no wife usually carcrash or cancer.    need I say more

Said this on 4-16-2011 At 04:06 pm

I'm talking with a guy online who's story is similar to some I read here. First he was in the U.S. looking to move his business here from the U.K. we met on mingle2.com free dating website, and he asked a few times if I would chat with him. We started Yahoo chatting and after a few weeks of that he said he was heading back to the U.K. for a few weeks. At this point he was professing his undying love for me and I was growing suspicious. After a week of him being in London, supposedly working at his business he owns there, he says he has to go to Nigeria to work on a project. He really wishes he could just come see me, but he has had this contract to do this job for a while. He wants to go on a trip with me for his 41st birthday and wants to send me money so I can arrange it. Before he leaves the U.K. he says he has a problem at his company with $45,000 pounds unaccounted for on the books. We are still chatting all this time, and he heads off to Nigeria. While there he says he is planning to fly to the U.S. to go on our trip (which we were suppose to be going on this weekend), but he is having problems coming up with the funds for his ticket to fly here since his money is all tied up in the investigation at his office in London. I tell him I will not send him money and he says he sorry for asking. He's still pursuing the relationship and professing undying love for me. However, the day he's suppose to be flying here to prove he loves me and he is who he says he is (of course I have been questioning him all along, as I keep finding "holes" in his story) he says his daughter is in hospital in the U.K. and needs to have heart surgery, so he has to fly there instead. That is where he is now, supposedly with his recovering daugther. At this point, I no longer believe a word he says. And now that I have read similar stories on this site, I wonder if he is the same guy scamming other women here. Anyone want to exchange photos? This guy, goes by Eric Williams, is extremely good looking and his photos could be modeling photos. Let me know if anyone has input or pix they want to exchange.

Hazel
Said this on 2-8-2012 At 05:00 pm

I would like to have a look at the photo please. I am beginning to think I am being scammed also. Mine is an Eric also, but away in Southern Sudan, working for a private security firm on a peacekeeping mission (sounds more implausible the more you say it).

I would desperately like it to be for real, but beginning to get the wind up now!

Said this on 1-24-2012 At 08:50 pm

Hi there, I think we might have been taking with the same guy but this one goes by the name of Alex Franklin. Can we probably share some pics to see if its the same one? Please let me know.


Thanks.

 

Mony

Lisa
Said this on 11-24-2010 At 01:06 am

Could I, please have his picture. I think I am talking to the same guy. He is stuck in Nigeria, he is from the UK went there for a seminar but they don't accept his credit card in this country. So, he needs me to send him money for food, water & a hotel. He will come & see me, but he gets robbed, needs more money, now the airline wants more money to change his ticket, of course more money needed. He goes by the name Lambert Blake. He of course, loves me even in death. Right, lol.

Said this on 9-29-2010 At 07:41 am

Ladies Beware! I met a man on BBWPersonals who said his name was Wilson Misrolav Haron, aka Willy Haron, aka Wilson Misrolav. E-mail address wilstron@live.com and wilharon@yahoo.com . Ph# 856-469-4180 supposes to live in Pennsville NJ. Widowed 4 yrs ago (wife died in car accident) has one grown son (David “Dave”) 18yrs old who is in school in Spain.

 

This man is a SCAMMER. He is very good. Talks to you for a couple of weeks, even sends flowers. Then he has to go out of the country on business and when he gets back he is going to come and visit you. A day or two before he is to return to the US he gets robbed.

 

All of his CASH is stolen. (Funny how he is out of the country using cash instead of Travelers checks since he is suppose to travel a lot for business). He was lucky enough that they did not get his passport but did take his money and the papers he needs for business. He needs $1400.00 to redo the papers and you are the only one he has to turn too. (Mother and Father deceased).

 

Wants you to loan him the money and as soon as he gets to you he will return the money. He is coming to see you as soon as he leaves Jamaica (or where ever he has gone on business this time).

 

If he can pay you as soon as he gets to you, how is he getting the money between the airport and your home? Why does he not contact his bank and have them wire the money to him? Where are his credit cards? (His wallet was not stolen but his briefcase was).

 

He is supposed to own his own home and a horse ranch. When I asked what the name of his ranch was called he said was called Wilson’s Ranch. (No such place, no listing at all for a Wilson Haron, Wilson Misrolav, Willy Haron, Misrolav Haron or even David Haron (his son) in New Jersey. Nor is there a ranch called Wilson’s ranch)

 

When I confronted him with this information he became upset, said there must be a mistake. He would never lie to you. He LOVES YOU. (How can he love you when have never met?)

 

He wants you to call him, he never calls you. He uses Yahoo Messenger and want a video conference but his web can never works (is not a built in camera and is having trouble with the wires).

 

He says he is German and has a very thick accent. (I work with someone from Germany and is not the same accent)

 

Do not fall for this guy. He is very good at trying to scam you. Be very careful.

Said this on 5-9-2011 At 09:47 am

I know he is not from Pennsville, NJ. I live there and he is currently playing me as we speak.  He is wanting me to raise 70,000.00 to get him home.  I am unemployed and how he thinks I can do that is crazy. He told me he is a construction Engineer and has a son named David who is going to school in England. He even told me his wife died three years ago due to cancer. Parents both deceased.  And he is German. He keeps telling me the Hotel manager is treatening to hurt him if he doesn't pay on his bill.

J
Said this on 11-21-2010 At 12:41 pm

Hi Laura:

I met this guy also on the same site about 1 1/2 years ago.  Similar story, then he was living near Ann Arbour, MI, USA, a Civil Engineer, wife died, son in school in England, sent me lots of pictures of himself, his house, etc. 

 He sent me flowers, we talked for 4 months and when we were going to meet, he suddenly had a road construction project in Nigeria.

When I checked out the address in the States it was some commercial complex, the pictures of his house showed a curling iron and women's toilettries in the bathroom.  When I asked him for help in the reinforcing of a road for a project 1 was doing, he said its reinforced with granite???? did not know what "green rebar is" and got very upset with all of the questions.

I was lucky to catch on fast with this scammer, I complained to BBWPersonals - but it looks like he is still there.  Ladies beware of Wilson Haron and please complain to the dating sites to "black ball" these guys.

As to the dating sites, stricter measures must be enforced where members must proove who they are.  One site will not accept a photo unless you submit a photo holding a sign with your screen name written on it.

Lucky for us we caught on fast, but there are hundreds of women that are not as fortunate.

The Internet is a great place also to get these scammers listed, so please take a few moments and drop a line.

J.

Said this on 9-6-2010 At 08:05 am

this man is from SCOTLAND..swearing his undying LOVE FOR ME..even send me gifts of gold jewlry that never came,,but has a tracking number that finally was hold on to MALAYSA for the reason then in it is 15000USD,,would you believe this..he even send me pictures of him..he's so handsome!TOO GOOD to be true..

Jackson
Said this on 9-15-2010 At 03:55 pm

what was his name and story?  and where did he say he lived?

Jackson
Said this on 9-13-2010 At 07:59 pm

My friend just encountered someone named Charles Berry-52 yrs old with yellow and blue shirt and with son in 2 pics.  He "says" hes from Scotland also, wife died in a car accident, has teen son, owns business, travels internationally a lot.  Professed to wish that we could build a home together!  But did not want to meet just yet, and then said on Wed. he is going to Malaysia to take care of a "contract he was awarded"  My friend caught on and let him know and suddenly all contact has ceased.  Beware of this type of scam when what they say seems to good to be true.

Theresa Nichols
Said this on 8-26-2009 At 12:19 pm
I too think I have encountered the same man. He started on myspace and with 6 hours professing undying love with in 12 marriage. He sd he lives in UK was was going to Ghanna on business. Once there his ATM card would not work. I have several pictures, names, addresses and even a cell phone number provided by him. Would love to exchange with all who believes he is one in the same. We need to stop him.
Victoria
Said this on 5-22-2009 At 07:52 am
Can we exchange pictures. I have his too. He says he has a Matilde daughter too and his mom is Isabel, he is also from kent, uk and is a OEM, reseller and he is 40 years , with ur same discription. Thanks
Victoria
Said this on 5-22-2009 At 07:31 am
Hey, I also have Widower named Bruce Clark in yahoo, meet in tagged. He claims to be from Kent and have a girl named Matilda. He is 40 yrs and doesnt care I have 58 has a grayish hair, goodlooking guy. Can u let me have his picture too to compare, he is on Tagged now as bruce clark. Can you check and see or let me know to place a sacm tag on him. Its not affair to think we woman are to be played with our feelings and sacm money. Thanks for the information here.
Agnes
Said this on 12-11-2008 At 01:23 pm
I'm talking with one right now and he asked for $300,000 to help him in a venture that he was doing in Kuwait. I said I didn't have that, well he could use anything I could give him. I kept saying No. Next day he called again and said he needed money to fly to the US to prove that he had money when he got here and would I send him $5,000-$8,000? He needed to prove this coming into the states and leaving Wales as well. Again I said no (Didn't these mothers teach the word NO to these guys). Oh he's in love with me. He's supposedly 53 I'm 74 (old enough to be his mother). He doesn't mind that. Now he's supposed to be coming to the US tomorrow and to visit me. Not that I'm anxious for that but he's staying in a Motel the whole time and I'm not investing money in this scheme and my kids are standing close watching and ready to push him out the door. Oh he's beautiful in his picture too. He says he travels only first class. Un huh. I too asked him if he was a scammer and he said that was a dirty word where he came from. Got to love the latest way of earning an income.
Jay
Said this on 9-30-2008 At 09:02 pm
What has the "daughter's surgery need your money" gotta do with your photos?

For other readers, this is obviously a scam.
Said this on 9-29-2008 At 07:00 pm
I would like to exchange photos. Did his daughter need a heart operation in the UK?
Said this on 9-29-2008 At 06:55 pm
My guy is a40 yr old base station engineer (telacomunications) His name is Bruce Clark and his photo is of a very handsome white gray haired man with a wonderful smile. But on the phone, he sounds black, like a cross between Barry White and an old voodoo movie, he even uses creole slang in his writing. He says he learned to talk like that from the gardeners and sevents when he was growing up in Kent. We started talking marriage and suddenly his daughter needed heart surgery in the UK and he wants me to deposit his US paycheck and transfer the money to him in the UK to pay for her hospital bill. His daughter's name is Matilda and his mothers name is Isabel. Does that sound familiar? Can we exchange photos?
Frances
Said this on 9-25-2008 At 07:50 pm
I recently started to talk to a guy and he was wanting to scam me really hard.....Just like Angela, he was using a kid to get money from me. If we could exchange pictures, maybe we could keep an eye out for these scammers.
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